How Do I Find the Will of God for Me?

I can’t believe that five weeks have gone by since we started the topic “Discerning God’s Will!” Before we outline how to find the will of God, let’s review our progress.

Review

In week one (https://robert-a-l-blake.com/discerning-gods-will/), we explored Isaiah 55, where we found God wants us to step up our spiritual experience. It is His will for us to know His will. Week two (https://robert-a-l-blake.com/is-it-possible-to-know-gods-will/) followed the saga of Baalam, a prophet of sorts in Numbers 22-24, who showed us it is possible for us to know God’s will. We discussed during week three’s session (https://robert-a-l-blake.com/why-is-it-important-for-me-to-follow-gods-will/) why it is important to know and do God’s will. Four fathers gave examples for each answer. Last week, week four, (https://robert-a-l-blake.com/is-the-will-of-god-specific-to-me/), we looked at four additional biblical examples and a personal one as we reviewed the theme of the specific nature of God’s will for each of us.

Overview: Find the Will of God

In each session, we alluded to or hinted at how to discover or recognize God’s will and we will explore this from the biblical standpoint where, as discussed before, there are several methods to find out. We will discuss seven (7) components of finding out God’s will. These are not part of a formula or recipe. The first one is a personal requirement or a commitment. The next five are ways God reveals His will, and the last is another requirement, again it is a commitment. This is not an exhaustive list and, in fact, many of the elements may not pertain to you. I believe it is how one relates or has related to God over the years. As before, there are biblical precedents for each.

1. Desire

Do you want to know God’s will for your life or are you okay just going day to day in a routine? Is your desire to find the will of God a burning passion, or does it really matter or not if you find it? Matthew 5:6 states that blessed and satisfied are those that hunger and thirst after “right doing”. By now, we are quite familiar with the Psalmist’s confession—“I delight to do Thy will O my God”, Psalm 40:8, and again in Psalm 42:1, 2 “As the hart panteth after the water brooks, so panteth my soul after thee, O God. My soul thirsteth for God, for the living God.” It is not a half-hearted wish—you have to want it!

2. Discussion

This is the first of the five ways to find the will of God for us. Again, it is not an exhaustive list. Discussion usually involves at least two parties and in this context, the second party is God. Yes, I am alluding to prayer and meditation. Ellen G. White states that “Prayer is the opening of the heart to God as to a friend” (Steps to Christ, p. 93). It is not a monologue, it is a dialogue with an opportunity for one to be silent and allow God to speak. He speaks through His Word. Seek this interaction and expect God’s response. Want it!

3. Discovery

We introduced three Bible references last week on spiritual gifts (Romans 12, I Corinthians 12, and Ephesians 4:8-12). This is another method to find the will of God. Many people do not know what their spiritual gifts are. Many are talented or have particular interests, but it is important to know how God has outfitted you for His service and ministry to the body of Christ. Your talent may be your gift, but if not used the way God has designed, it could end up being a curse to yourself and others rather than a blessing the way intended.

Take some time to review the lists of gifts as found in these referenced chapters. Perhaps write them down and categorize them. See which ones resonate with you. Even see which ones remind you of someone you know—you might even mention it to that person as a gesture of affirmation. It may be a surprise to them, or maybe they were waiting for that external confirmation. There are several online gift assessments and even church seminars.

This is a crucial step for each believer and church fellowship to take to enable the body to function in harmony rather than in chaos. Each person has at least one gift. Don’t gasp if you have more than one—praise God! Just remember Christ’s admonition in Luke 12:48 “For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required:”

4. Dreams

Joseph, of Egyptian fame and Joseph, the earthly father of Jesus, both received instruction from God via dreams (Genesis 37:19, 20; Matthew 1:20, Matthew 2:22). God still uses this method, and it is helpful to find the will of God. It is important to place the dream in the proper context and have further discussion with God. Some of us have very vivid dreams if we eat late or watch TV before bed. Thus, I would caution one against acting on their so-called dream from God the minute they awaken the next morning! Because of this, some caution that the last exposure one should have before sleeping is time with God. For this, and all the methods we are discussing, the instruction given should coincide with the Word of God. “To the law and to the testimony: if they speak not according to this word, it is because there is no light in them (Isaiah 8:20).”

5. Discernment

Elijah’s encounter with God on Mount Horeb (I Kings 19:8-21) is one of the earliest examples of hearing the “still small voice” of God. No fanfare, nothing spectacular, the instruction almost appeared to come in passing. By developing a closer walk with God, one becomes more attuned to recognizing God’s voice, especially when there is a lot of competition for one’s attention. Similar to the other methods, God’s Word, a trusted friend, or a spiritual mentor can convey discernment. Sometimes it is via repetition, as God places Himself “in your way” during the day. As an old Verizon commercial used to ask, “Can you hear Me now?”

6. Dramatic

I attended a graduation service one day in a large church. As a task-driven introvert, my goal was to attend the service and leave without incident. I noticed a well-known church leader and his family engaged with others. I had had a dream the night before that I would see him. He spied me from across the auditorium and, abruptly leaving his group, we made our way towards each other. He was almost breathless as he accosted me. “Dr. Blake, God has impressed me you are called to chaplaincy ministry!” I stood, surprised and almost speechless. The reason was not because of his presumption, but because of his revelation. I had been contemplating chaplaincy for quite some time and had told no one but God. We pledged to have a longer dialogue, and I greeted his family, who by now had caught up, and hurried from the auditorium to process what had just happened. The rest is a story for another time. Experiencing this method to find the will of God can be enlightening, but can also be overwhelming.

7. Duty

Finally, once you find the will of God for your life, what are you going to do about it? Some people express doubt or disbelief and look for additional evidence or another sign, as did Gideon (Judges 6:11-24). This only delays God’s work in your life, for as our anchor text states, “He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God (Micah 6:8)?” Thus, once you know God’s will, by whatever revealed method or methods, the next and best course of action is to do it because, as in week three:

  1. It shows obedience to God.
  2. It shows love for God.
  3. It avoids confusion.
  4. The life I save may just be my own.

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Is the Will of God Specific to Me?

Follow God’s Will – Review

Is the Will of God Specific to Me? First, let’s review. Last week, we reviewed four biblical fathers as examples of why it is important to know and do God’s will (https://robert-a-l-blake.com/why-is-it-important-for-me-to-follow-gods-will/).

  1. Deacon Philip, in Acts 9, produced the first known convert to Christianity in Ethiopia. This was because of his obedience to God’s will.
  2. The first son of the father in Matthew 21:28-32 was unwilling, but showed love to his father by doing his will.
  3. King David showed that although we may have a heart for God, we can generate confusion in our lives by not doing God’s will.
  4. Finally, Moses almost lost his life by not doing God’s will in an apparently minor matter; thus, showing us that compliance with God’s instructions is a serious matter.

Is the Will of God Specific To Me? – Overview

One of several verses that my mother quoted to me while I was growing up is Ecclesiastes 3:1. She used to paraphrase it as “There is a time and place for everything under the sun.” The context was usually a reprimand rather than commendation, as I was quite a handful growing up. Paul reflects on this verse in I Corinthians 6:12 “All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient:”. 

On Saturday, June 17, 2023, Dr. Sherwin Jack preached a sermon entitled “The Other Storm” for the second Sabbath of the South Central Conference’s camp meeting (https://www.youtube.com/live/uW5olEy4BTg?feature=share&t=10826). It centered on the conversion of the demoniac in Mark 5, who afterwards requested to follow Jesus. It was an innocent yet noble request, considering that he had spent a considerable period of his life bound in slavery to the devil. Jesus’ reply was shocking, as it had been typical of Him to invite people to yield their lives to a Greater Power. Jesus’ refusal was actually an opportunity, a catalyst if you would, for the formerly possessed man to evangelize his hometown. Dr. Jack suggested that Jesus always answers our request in one of four ways: 1. Yes, 2. No, 3. Not yet, or 4. Not you.

Now that we have set the framework for our discussion, let’s look at the topic. “Is God’s will specific to me?”

There is usually an instruction or directive given to everyone under a leader’s purview to carry out a certain task or assignment. This occurs at church, school, or in any organized body of individuals. Often, this is deliberate and serves the greater good for the mission of the organization. Sometimes, it leads to the concept of “group think” and stifles an individual’s creativity, motivation, or even purpose. God’s will for our lives is our overarching theme. We use the terms God’s will or purpose for our lives interchangeably.

Joseph’s Misfortune, God’s Providence

The Bible is a ready reservoir of real-life examples that show and model ways to approach life’s challenges. Joseph is one of my favorite Bible characters. As a former leader, I studied his life in retrospect and applied many principles that either served me or shielded me during my tenure. Despite his misfortunes, by God’s providence, he excelled and saved a nation, his family. We see in that God’s specific will for him. It wasn’t happenstance. Out of 12 brothers that God could have chosen from and used, he chose Joseph.

My misfortunes, God’s Providence

Of course, I don’t see myself as Joseph, but recently I had a discussion with a friend of mine as we reviewed my career to date. I spent many years in the Capital region where I trained and subsequently found blessing to work. During that time, I worked in many health care systems, sometimes simultaneously. While serving in real time, I had had a foreboding sentiment that something was wrong with my credibility and stability. Whereas my parents had remained in their respective jobs for decades, I was changing jobs every handful of years!

As I reflected recently, it had been God’s providence. I met many individuals from different backgrounds, religious affiliations, and ethnic groups, which enriched my career and informed my ministry. Although I was not perfect, this was a specific task that God had assigned to me, albeit unbeknownst to me.

Queen Esther’s Assignment

Another biblical heroine of mine is Esther. As an orphaned young woman minding her own business as part of a captive nation, she suddenly found herself in a rapid ascent to power. When charged with duty, she questioned her purpose. Her guardian, Mordecai, told her that this was a mission specifically assigned to her. “Who knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a time as this?”

Gifts in the Body of Christ

In the New Testament, the apostle Paul, as David in last week’s study, initially misunderstood his assignment. Consumed with zeal for God, or so he thought, he sought to persecute the infantile Christian church. He had trained extensively, as had Moses, but misused his gifts. After an abrupt and dramatic redirection by Jesus Christ Himself, he harnessed his zeal as a soldier for Jesus Christ.

Paul described, as seen in our text, that everyone is specifically called for God’s purposes. No one, as Paul outlines in Romans 12, I Corinthians 12, and Ephesians 4:8-12, is without a gift in the body of Christ. However, as a good friend and ministry mentor of mine, Dr. Iulian Sava, relates, “God gives us gifts as seeds, not the whole fruit. We have to nurture it.” Thus, as Ecclesiastes points out, there is a season and a purpose for the unveiling and use of these gifts.

Jesus Christ and His Specific Mission

Finally, there is the ultimate example of Jesus Christ. Jesus did not just show up on the scene at a random time, place, and for an arbitrary assignment. The Old Testament extensively prophesied His birth, ministry, death, and resurrection. These were not just given as broad events, but specific times and in minute details. The New Testament Gospels often referred to those passages. His mission was clear as conveyed to His earthly parents by the angel Gabriel and affirmed by anointed individuals such as Simeon and Anna (Luke 2:34-38).

Jesus Christ Himself was fully aware of His mission. Even as a child, as He said to His earthly parents that chided Him for being “lost”, asking them “How is it that ye sought me? Wist ye not that I must be about my Father’s business” (Luke 2:49)? He related His purpose publicly in Luke 4:18-19 as He quoted Isaiah 61:1 “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised, to preach the acceptable year of the Lord.” This was no random mission! God’s will for Him was so specific that no one else in heaven or earth could fulfill it.

Hebrews makes this very clear in chapters 1:1-2:11, 9:28, and 10:5-9. I call your attention to Hebrews 1:4 and 2:9, which have particular meaning and support this premise. “Being made so much better than the angels, as he hath by inheritance obtained a more excellent name than the.,” “But we see Jesus, who was made a little lower than the angels for the suffering of death, crowned with glory and honour; that he by the grace of God should taste death for every man.” Again, these passages echo the psalmist who spoke prophetically about the coming Messiah in Psalm 40:7, 8, our anchor text last week, “Lo, I come to do thy will, O God.”

Summary

Yes, God has a specific purpose for each of us that fits perfectly within His will. We will discuss “How to discover God’s will for me” next week during our last post.

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Why is it important for me to follow God’s will?

Knowing God’s Will: Review

Last week we discussed the topic “Is it possible to know God’s will?” https://robert-a-l-blake.com/is-it-possible-to-know-gods-will/ We reviewed the rather complex story of Baalam. We found that even though God’s will appeared to change depending on the scenario, it was consistent throughout the story. God wanted to bless Israel and perhaps even minister to a heathen king. He chose an instrument of questionable standing, but used him. This week, we will look at our third topic in the series, entitled “Why is it important for me to follow God’s will?”

Follow God’s Will: Overview

We will explore four (4) answers to the question. There are many more, but four (4) examples should suffice. As before, we will use biblical references for our discussion, and each answer will explore the life of a father.

Why is it important for me to know and follow God’s will?

  1. It shows obedience to God.
  2. Following God’s will shows love for God.
  3. It avoids confusion.
  4. The life I save may just be my own.

Philip the Deacon

We find a classic example of obedience to God in the New Testament story of Philip. There are at least two followers of Jesus named Philip in the Bible. The first mentioned is in Matthew 10:3. Jesus chose this Philip as one of His twelve (12) apostles. After Peter, James, and John, he is perhaps the most quoted or referenced apostle in the Gospels. We see Philip in the feeding of the 5000 (John 6:5-7), as well as introducing the Greeks to Jesus (John 12:20-22). We finally see him showing a bit of misunderstanding as he asks Jesus to show him God the Father (John 14:8-10).

The second Philip does not appear until after the death, burial, and resurrection of Christ during the formation of the Christian church. Luke, the author of Acts, lists him after Stephen, the first martyr, as one of the seven (7) deacons (Acts 6:5). He describes him as a very active evangelist throughout Acts 8—preaching, baptizing, healing, and exorcising. He had four (4) daughters (Acts 21:8, 9). The man was busy!

One day, the angel of the Lord sent him on a long walk. There were no reasons given, just a specific instruction to get up and go (Acts 9:26). He obeyed and came across a government official from Ethiopia. This is interesting not only to people of color but also that this encounter occurred before Peter’s conviction on the race and ethnicity issue. The Holy Spirit gave one last instruction to minister to this official, which led to his baptism (Acts 9:29-39).

There is a strong Christian presence in Ethiopia today, which is perhaps because of this encounter and one man’s obedience to follow God’s will.

Love for the Father

We recognize I Corinthians 13 as the love chapter, whereas we know the apostle John as the apostle of love. His writings ring full of love for God and for each other. I John is a classic example of this as there are several passages where he ties love to doing God’s will. These chapters reflect Christ’s words in John 14:15, where He states without reservation, “If ye love Me, keep My commandments.”

Jesus shared a parable in Matthew 21:28-32 about a man that had two sons. The father asked the first son to handle a request of him. That son adamantly replied that he would not do it. However, perhaps as he became repentant, he completed his father’s request. He assigned a task to the second son, who readily responded that he would get it done. However, for whatever reason, he did not accomplish his assignment. Jesus then posed a question to his listeners—“Whether of the twain did the will of his father?” Of course, the answer is the first son, as he is the only one who complied. Willingness was not enough for the second son, but actually doing his father’s will showed love for him.

There are many biblical examples of individuals that brought unnecessary confusion into their circumstances. David is one that readily comes to mind. He was the youngest of eight (8) sons of Jesse the Bethlehemite (I Samuel 16), a man who I’ve entitled a “Man of War”. Five of Jesse’s sons and three of his grandsons were soldiers. His grandsons and his son David were uncontestable on the battlefield.

A Confused Man

David, in his youthful years, was an amiable and peaceable lad who the prophet Samuel anointed as king to succeed Saul. Fast forward to his days of battle and his years as a king and there you find quite the contrasting picture. He was a fugitive frequently and a formidable warrior, as mentioned. He had multiple wives simultaneously, and a divided household. The Bible stated that “the sword would never leave his house” (II Samuel 12:10)! Later, we know him as “a man after God’s own heart” (I Samuel 13:14), but somewhere in his life, he misunderstood and did not follow God’s will.

Towards the end of his days, he reflected on how life could have been very different if he had just trusted God more and sought to do His will. In Psalm 71, he attempts to reset the trajectory of his life by stating, “In Thee, O Lord, do I put my trust: let me never be put to confusion” (Psalm 71:1). David is a classic, but not the sole case, to support that by doing God’s will, we can avoid a significant amount of confusion in our experience.

Life or Death

Finally, knowing and doing God’s will can be a life or death matter. Pastor Jamond Jimmerson, expounded on the call of Moses found in Exodus chapters 3 and 4 in his sermon “Your Excuses don’t Work with Me” (South Central Conference camp meeting, 6/10/2023) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=puUvCFd3KkE&t=51s. After a direct and personalized call by God to lead His people, Moses said “no” to God (Exodus 4:13). Pastor Jimmerson’s first point in his sermon was, “It’s dangerous when you tell God ‘no’!” The story goes on post-acceptance speech, and the scene is unrelated to the call or sermon, to Moses’ journey to Egypt with his wife and son. In Exodus 4:15-23, God lays out the detailed instructions for Moses’ assignment.

In verse 24, the story takes an abrupt and dramatic turn for the worst—“the Lord met him, and sought to kill him”! Where did that come from?! For what, saying “no”?! Like the second son in Jesus’s parable, Moses had initially said no, but then complied with God’s request. Verses 25-26, detail that he had not followed God’s command to Abraham, his forefather, to circumcise his son as a sign of the covenant with God, as outlined in Genesis 17:9-14. Why was Moses and not his son threated with death? This is because Moses was supposed to have completed this ritual for his son at eight days of age. Moses, a man called by God, almost lost his life by not following God’s will.

Why is it important for me to know and follow God’s will?

  1. It shows obedience to God.
  2. Following God’s will shows love for God.
  3. It avoids confusion.
  4. The life I save may just be my own.

Is it possible to know God’s will?

Review

Our study last week discussed the question, “Is it God’s will for us to know God’s will?” (https://robert-a-l-blake.com/discerning-gods-will/) We found through the exploration of Isaiah 55 that it is God’s will. A new question sets the stage for our study. Is it possible to know God’s will?

Context

This week, we start with an admonition from the apostle Paul particularly regarding leaders. In context with our anchor text, Paul recommends intercessory prayer in verse 1, and verses 5 & 6 affirm that Christ Jesus is the only mediator between God and men.

Background

Let’s look at an atypical example of someone who had difficulty answering this question. The children of Israel had left Egypt some time ago and were well on their way to Canaan, the Promised Land. Through God’s leading and interventions, they became established as a formidable force in the land. In Numbers, chapter 21, they had just completed the utter destruction of Sihon, king of the Amorites, and Og, king of Bashan.

In chapter 22:1, they pitched their tents in the plains of Moab. The Moabites, we remember, were quite near relatives being the descendants of Lot, Abraham’s nephew. God had specifically instructed Israel not to war against Moab because of this. Balak, the king of Moab, saw things from a very different perspective. Because of the Israelites recent defeat of the Amorites, he viewed the Israelites as a threat. Knowing he probably could not survive a battle, he concocted an alternative method.

The Prophet Baalam

Numbers 22-24 tells the story of Baalam. The name doesn’t even sound right. Who would name their son Baalam? Baalam appears in Scripture with no formal introduction. It does not identify him as a king, priest, or prophet, but merely as an apparently well-known man with a unique gift. Whoever he blessed received blessings and whoever he cursed received curses. He also had a rather interesting connection to God, which complicated his so-called gift as he appeared to dabble in other spiritual practices.

Scene 1

The elders of Moab and Midian presented the proposal to Baalam to curse the Israelites on behalf of King Balek. He sought counsel from God to inquire of His will (verse 8). In verse 12, God specifically forbade him not to go and not to curse the people of Israel, for God blessed them. Baalam thus refused the money and sent the emissaries home.

  • What was God’s will?
    • Don’t go, don’t curse
  • Did Baalam know God’s will?
    • Yes
  • Did Baalam follow God’s will?
    • Yes

End of story? Not quite.

Scene 2

Not only was he well known for his power of divination, but he also had the reputation of being a skilled contract negotiator. Balak knew this as well, but also was in dire straits as leader of his nation. So he sent even higher-ranking officials to Baalam (Numbers 22:15). They offered more than money, even prestige as a government official (v. 17), but Baalam sought God’s will (v. 19).

  • What was God’s will?
    • Go, if they call him. Only speak what God tells him. (v. 20).
  • Did Baalam know God’s will?
    • Yes
  • Did Baalam follow God’s will?
    • No (vv. 21-22)

Reinstruction

After an almost deadly experience (Numbers 22:21-33), Baalam confessed and submitted to God’s instruction, which God reiterated to him.

  • What was God’s will?
    • Go. Only speak what God tells him. (v. 35).
  • Did Baalam know God’s will?
    • Yes (v. 38)
  • Did Baalam follow God’s will?
    • No (vv. 35 and 38)

Impressions

In chapter 23, we see Baalam conducting a large sacrificial program. I don’t recall this being part of God’s instructions. It may have been grandstanding on Baalam’s part to impress Balak, or perhaps impress God. God met him and reaffirmed his instruction (v. 5), perhaps, lest Baalam should get caught up in the moment and forget the previous agreement. Balak probably was attempting a bit of showmanship as well to impress Baalam. He showed up with full regalia, pomp, and circumstance, so this definitely added to the pressure.

In verses 7-10, Baalam presented a blessing for Israel directly from God. This, of course, not only displeased Balak, but stuck a chord of terror within him. The scene repeated in verses 14-24.

  • What was God’s will?
    • Bless
  • Did Baalam know God’s will?
    • Yes
  • Did Baalam follow God’s will?
    • Yes

Spirit-Filled

The narrative posed a different scenario in chapter 24:1. Recognizing God’s will from the scenes in chapter 23, Baalam did not seek counsel from God as in the previous times. However, verse 2 ended with “and the spirit of God came upon him.” For the balance of the chapter, he erupted in an endless stream of blessings, despite the objections of King Balak. In verse 17, a very familiar passage, he specifically prophesied Israel’s destruction of Moab.

God’s Will

So I pose the final set of questions to you for reflection:

  • Did Baalam know God’s will?
  • Did Baalam follow God’s will?
  • What was God’s will?

In responding to these questions, consider our anchor text found in I Timothy 2:3, 4.

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